The all-important Why

47 there with all the other casualties and they were apparently there to recuperate from the shock of their sudden death. It was beautiful there. They were able to go for walks, read, engage in sport, sit together, chat etc. He wrote amongst other things that just because he was now in the hereafter, he didn’t suddenly know everything. He was engaged in learning more and he was endeavouring to gain more understanding. And once he had opened a door, a door to understanding, he would already see the next door, a door he would dearly like to open as well. Our development was progressing all the time. He also wrote that when relatives on Earth had the desire to convey something to their loved ones in the hereafter, it was very easily possible. The souls in the hereafter were apparently much more sensitive than we on Earth. If one were to direct distinct thoughts from Earth to where they were, there was a great possibility that these thoughts would get to where they were. I find that this is a good lead for relatives with feelings of guilt. Remember: “I couldn’t even say goodbye to my husband”. Even if something in a human relationship had not been cleared up or when something unsaid should have been said, this represents a very good opportunity to rectify this. One could therefore say or think: “Dear Herbert, I am infinitely sorry for having to leave you on your own during your most difficult time. You can believe me when I say that I also suffered terribly from this enforced separation. I would also like to thank you with all my heart for the good times that we had together. It wasn’t always that easy for you to deal with my righteousness. Please forgive me. Have you managed to recuperate a little? It is my dearest wish that things go well for you…” One could also write a letter to the deceased and leave it open somewhere in the house. This would also be a possibility to say what has been left unsaid, so that peace can reign after some time has passed. Dear reader, as T. W. Stead reported later to his daughter Estelle: To be in the hereafter doesn’t mean that one is in “the highest heaven”. There are many different planes in the other world. There are those that are very similar to Earth. But there are planes and “spheres” beyond the initial sphere that are so infinitely beautiful, that we cannot even begin to imagine how beautiful they are.

RkJQdWJsaXNoZXIy MjI1MzY3