Energetic Vampirism and its effect on our daily life

- 11 - The secretary must be prepared to be shouted at and humiliated by the boss. He has been used to receiving his portion of refreshing life energy for years and this every morning at his coffee break. So why should he suddenly do without it? This can become disagreeable or even painful under certain circumstances. He will be lacking something. This can lead to a situation where he will be in a bad mood for days and this until his body has come to terms with the new situation. Important is: The secretary must remain nice, friendly and self-assured, she must smile at him and assure him that no matter how loud he screams at her, she will only bring him his coffee if he ask for it in a friendly manner. One more example: A young mother with a three years old child and an eight months old baby gets very anxious because her mother-in-law is about to stay with them for a few days. The old lady wasn’t too pleased with the choice of her son. Whenever she visits, she expects a “Wishing-Table” (Brothers Grimm), perfect cleanliness, perfect housekeeping and also that her daughter-in-law takes ample time to talk to her, most of the time about her badly affected health. The children are not allowed to make a peep or demand the attention of their mother, they would otherwise be seen as spoiled and badly brought up. The old lady would certainly frown if she should discover that a bed had not been made or that the vacuuming had not been done correctly and at the right time. When she eats, she stabs at the food and gives good advice about how the young mother could have done things better. Once in a while a sigh escapes her and the words, if only he had listened to her as her son did have a better option, escape her lips,. The young woman becomes more nervous by the minute and makes more and more mistakes. The children become restless and cry, something they usually do not do. The young woman finally reaches her wits end and begins to cry once in a while, something that gives her mother-in-law the impression that she has weak nerves and that she reacts hysterically to trifles. What can be done here? First of all, she must keep her nerve and think the situation through: The mother-in-law comes around because she feels lonely, unwanted, ignored or unloved, particularly by her son who put an unsympathetic daughter-in-law in front of her nose. He probably should not have married at all and if he had to, he could have chosen one that would spoil him the way his mother spoiled him. As the situation stands, she tries to shoot her poisonous arrows against her rival. My advice: Not to clean excessively and even leave a basket full of washed clothes that need ironing standing there. Realise that the mother-in-law would like to be loved and that she would like to feel needed. Also open the door by displaying great joy and immediately thank her for her willingness to help. Explain the day’s routine over a cup of coffee be saying that it would be arranged best if dear granny

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